How far do you go to hide your perceived flaws or vulnerabilities?
People with low-self esteem believe that there is something wrong with them and believe that they are less worthy than then the people around them. People with low self-worth always try to hide or stay in the shadows so that no one notices their imagined flaws.
The root of why we hide: Many people are afraid to make a mistake. Making a mistake brings attention, allowing others to notice our shortcomings. Likewise, people with low self-esteem have a tendency to want to do everything perfectly so that they stay unnoticed; they believe that if they appear to be perfect, no one will notice their underlying flaws. People with low self-esteem also fear being judged and this is one of the main reasons they feel anxious around people, especially strangers.
In addition, people with low self-esteem cannot tolerate criticism. Criticism is a straightforward reminder of a person’s flaws; because low self-esteem and feelings of inadequacy go hand in hand, they hate criticism because it reinforces their already existing flaws.
Do you let other people define you? Do you let people tell you who you are or who you are supposed to be? Does your self-perception change according to who is around? If so, you are likely allowing other to impinge on your happiness.
It’s time to fly; whether or not people are watching.
Click here for more information about self-esteem, including my short video and a self-quiz.
Carrie
Love the poster. Love this work.