Tell me your story.

It’s just not working. Your friends are quick with advice, but they just don’t get it. You certainly can’t talk to your parents. Your partner is too entrenched in the situation. You have been wanting to make changes but you’re too embarrassed, sad or hurt to talk about it. Maybe it’s time you and I … Continue reading »
Tell me your story.

I don’t want you to save me. I want you to stand by my side as I save myself.

Everyone would like to receive caring, emotional support from others when feeling hurt, alone, disappointed, scared or upset. But what is supportive to one person may not be to another. People differ substantially in the type of emotional support that makes them feel better. If you want the right kind of support, you have to … Continue reading »
I don’t want you to save me. I want you to stand by my side as I save myself.

I might not be the right therapist for you.

There is no one therapist, philosophy, or therapeutic approach that works best for everyone. Any claim to the contrary is simply not true. Everyone is different, with different personalities, different issues, different needs and different preferences. That is the purpose of a consultation. It is not to be sold to. It is to have an … Continue reading »
I might not be the right therapist for you.

You think you deserve pain, but you don’t.

You think feeling constantly stressed and exhausted is normal, but it’s not. Many of us make the mistake of believing that we don’t deserve happiness and accept our unhappy state as our destiny. We tolerate jobs that decrease our self-worth. We accept relationships that make us feel “less than” and we stay in environments that … Continue reading »
You think you deserve pain, but you don’t.