Dear Insecure Girl,

You are beautiful. You are unique. You are intuitive. You are loved. You are special. You are cared for. You are lovely. You are precious. You are kind. You are strong. You are radiant. You are important. You are forgiven. You are protected. You are empowered. You are chosen. You are capable. You are intelligent. … Continue reading »
Dear Insecure Girl,

Sometimes things have to go wrong before they can go right.

Sometimes we have to let the wrong people walk out before we allow the right people to walk in. Sometimes we have to feel weak in order to know what it’s like to feel strong. Sometimes you have to be broken to realize you’ll never be shattered. Sometimes you have to “be in like” before … Continue reading »
Sometimes things have to go wrong before they can go right.

She suppressed her needs, wants, expectations and values in order to please others.

Her hope was to avoid conflict, criticism and disappointment.  But the more she tried to please others, the dimmer her inner voice became. She eventually lost herself.She became well aware that she couldn’t be a people pleaser and have healthy self-esteem. It was one or the other. She had to choose. So she adopted the … Continue reading »
She suppressed her needs, wants, expectations and values in order to please others.

Seasonal Affective Disorder

If dreary, dark winter months get you down, you’re not alone. When there is less natural sunlight it can mess with your mood and leave you feeling blue until spring comes and brings the sun with it.  People with Seasonal Affective Disorder (or SAD) develop symptoms of depression in the winter months when there is … Continue reading »
Seasonal Affective Disorder

She always followed the path of least resistance.

Others had steered her in the direction they preferred.  She always took the easy way out. Nothing worth having is easy, they said.  She pondered that thought. They told… her “you can’t”, so she had to.  “It’s time to move on,” she vowed.  The first step in getting what she wanted was having the courage … Continue reading »
She always followed the path of least resistance.